Authentic Life is the best way of living. Let's transcend!

     

                                                              

Dear readers and seekers, welcome to the blog. In today’s world, we can see people who are mainly under the influence of false notions. For example, could a speech of the chief guest be authentic? It can be knowledgeable but not…WISE. In the first place, no one knows ‘authenticity.’ They are the least bothered. But the bother grows when they are in a state of sorrow, as it demands authenticity.

This blog is only for those who want to make their lives easier through effective communication. Yes, do you ever notice a kid who can be irritated at times? If you are reading this blog, it means you are not a kid anymore. It is difficult to manage their emotions at an early stage; a kid needs the education of effective communication, which is not taught in schools or even by the parents at home. Now the kid grew and became an adult like you or I or anyone but who is not a kid.

The percentage of wealthy people is very low in this world, which means happiness is also very low. The more money one has, the happier one is. Or in any form, he is suppressing his dream life due to societal pressure. Means the low money one has, the sorrow he is in. Why are people falling into the trap of sorrow so easily? Why does he not notice that it is not the end until he clings to it?

People want to live a life that is very difficult and hard. Those who are addicted to instant pleasures are the main victims here. They fall into the trap of the mind, which is undoubtedly subtle. Why are the thoughts so traditional? Because there is no freshness here, we are just continuing the day after the night, or vice versa., Why does our mind not think out of the box, but conventionally? As the mind is trapped with its recordings. It loops and rewinds, but it will not step out to see what exists. Why are people not interested in flexible thinking and cultivating a mindset of abundance?

                            

In this blog, let’s check if your mindset is flexible or fixed:

           Test 1:

1. What you said is only the right thing, and you don’t obey others.

 a. Yes      b. No

     2. You made me angry. It's your fault (blaming)

 a. Yes     b. No

     3. Irresponsibility

 a. Yes      b. No

4. Always thinking about the past

 a. Yes      b. No

5. Anxiety about the future/tomorrow

     a. Yes      b. No

6. Frequent irritations and unpleasant interactions

     a. Yes      b. No

7. Night motivations

     a. Yes      b. No

8. Waking late and procrastinating

     a. Yes      b. No

9. Give up easily

     a. Yes      b. No

10.No confidence at all

     a. Yes      b. No

Congratulations, even one yes is an indication that you need to work on your thought process, as your mindset is fixed.

A fixed mindset makes you a dramatic person, a victim. Everyone here has a painful story to tell. If you succumb to the pain in your story emotionally, then it’s obvious that you could become a victim of your life. A strong trait of a victim is always yearning for sympathy, reacting and blaming the external circumstances instead of managing their emotional responses. Being a victim does not ensure you anything but meeting the emotional needs on your own instead of expecting them to be found in others/externally, ensures you in paying your way for the life you want to live.

What differentiates us from the one being so successful is the depth of understanding of life.

A flexible mindset, i.e., a dynamic way of living, is like living the moment by moment afresh. A life full of confidence, productive growth, and a consistent and stress-free life.

No one is born to live a life so hard. Become the cause to live on. Know that you are not a slave of your mind, but you are the master of it.